Neat sex with our beloved was an appreciation of inner feelings with the mutual consent of each other. But, this has drastically changed in the modern era. Sexual favours are indeed been sought to fulfil the immediate urges of the uncontrollable ones. This has sadly marred the beauty of today's relationships... Thus, resulting in unwanted relations and marital discord.
An accused tailor had revealed that he had sexually harassed around 300 females over the years. A certain young man had forced himself on his own mother under the influence of alcohol. Minors are being sexually abused. Lots of inhumane incidents are being witnessed.
Many blame the usage of internet as the main cause of such unfortunate happenings. The concerned elders are furious about the easy availability of porn and other vulgar entertainment especially on the mobile phones as they believe that viewing them has made the human minds to unleash the devilish sides of their behaviours like uncontrollable mad dogs craving so much for the human flesh. School going children too find it okay to hold on to item number songs as their favourite humming charts. And, everything is so easily done at just the click of a digital button which either takes you to a world full of technological fantasies or controls your mindset and makes you a slave of uncontrollable addictions. Now, it depends upon you and yourself ... to choose your options of exploring the digital world quite wisely and carefully.
Females are increasingly viewed as sexual meatballs. Plain friendships too are demanding for sexual favours. The game has changed for the worse. All are busy in updating themselves with the hidden vulgar. All this adds up to the harmful content. Life has degraded over the heinous acts. People are least bothered to value one another.
Interestingly, some of us have a different view point about all this. I have heard men stating all such things as part of modernism. Their slogan is to enjoy life to the fullest and be open minded.
Really? ?????
If this was all included in the modern theories of life. .. then it was much better to be kind of out-dated instead of being a part of the insecure worldly pleasures...
We somewhat criticize porn stars but little do we realize that it is we who are encouraging their immoral acts by viewing them secretly with so much pleasure. Thus, Sex has become the most wanted theme of today.... And, man loves raw flesh to fulfil his satisfactions. It's such a pity that we have lost the charm of respecting the feelings of others.
Some men whom I had interviewed almost confessed that they were somehow dragged into unwanted sexual relations because of unavoidable circumstances at that particular time. A guy beds his friend's aunt just because it was a rainy day and she was quite irresistibly attractive. Another guy beds a mature lady when she had come to provide some food for him as he was all sick and feverish. A certain young man impregnated his own mother after giving her sleeping pills in milk at nights making her believe that it was the medication prescribed for her illness. Nextly, a brother and a sister sent away from their parents for the sake of completing their education comes back home with a baby in hand revealing that they have become a married couple. These are all shocking facts of the modern world.
Sexting and sending vulgar pictures have increased the ratings of sexual pleasures. This has indeed been a bonus for the lurking sexual predators. Such ones just love to go to any levels to get what they want from their victims. Thus, we have glazed the word 'SEX' and advertised its importance in a wrong manner. ... Hope we replace all this and come back to the respectful platform of simple lives.
-(This has been penned by me focussing on the degradation of sexuality because of our uncontrollable and maddening attitudes towards others.... Let's not become the slaves of unwanted sexual fantasies which might completely erase out the humane personalities of ours).
-(Jolsna)
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