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(A 3) THE MATRIMONIAL CUPCAKES.


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                 '''''''''SHAADI'''''''''''''

         'MARRIAGES ARE MADE IN HEAVEN' ..... Marriage is a wonderful destination where you come to a serious realization about the importance of your partner in life! The word 'MARRIAGE' brings me the idea to visualize the splendid arrays of multi-coloured themes creating a mesmerizing ambience and I just love that very much! It is perfectly amazing to watch everybody bathed in so much happiness and joy!!

      There are times, when marriages have shredded to pieces due to the various imbalances in the commitments. That doesn't mean one should be afraid of getting married either in a love marriage ceremony or in an arranged manner. If you would ask me about the best option... I would simply state that both have their own pros and cons. Nowadays, both the options have become beautiful as well as slightly complicated too. Thereby, some would simply  believe it as their deserving destiny....

     On the other hand, there are even those who would prefer a live in relationship instead of a seriously committed married life. I have known many ladies who have given it a thought to live a single status life. Well, this all depends on one's own personal choice. But, it's quite a misfortune when a person's family and society put up a lot of unnecessary pressures owing to their orthodox beliefs. Marriage should definitely be an independent choice for men as well as for women.

    It was quite a complicated decision-making when it came to the point of my marriage. I was overloaded with different kinds of opinions and concerns but I just couldn't dump my love relationship of almost eight years. So, I simply approved with my heart and got married with my long time boyfriend who was a non-Christian. It wasn't that easy in the very beginning as there were slight adjustments and responsibilities to be taken care of. Small fights and arguments gave rise to an unnecessary stress. It was a very different environment at home.

    Things didn't go well with us. I didn't know cooking nor any of the household chores. This only made matters worse. He started criticizing me and I lost my patience. We couldn't stand each other. It was all a total mess. At last, two people who were madly in love were on the verge of divorce. But, then finally. ..we came to a much more matured realization to forgive one another and to give it a shot. This seriously worked well with us and we were able to do some patchwork of love in our married life!!

    In short, MARRIAGE is a nominated platform where you will discover yourself in a totally different phase of life. One gets to learn and improvise the various necessary skills of a reality-based life. I did the same thing and learned to be a homemaker!

     So, Friends...!
Shaadi is not altogether a barbaadi but it's just an advanced and a vast version of self-management as well as the most lovable partnership of 'TOGETHERNESS'........  :)

                                 -{ Jolsna }

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