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THE SINKING SHIPS OF RELATIONSHIPS.


    Once upon a time, 'Heavenly Happiness' was found in every Relationships... But sadly, there is no longer such a thing present in today's era as all are quite busy in working out their own selfishness. There is no more true love and respect among us. Nowadays, people are having the tendency of looking for their own benefits in each and every dealings of life. Nobody is ready enough to care and share freely. And, my mom describes all these happenings as something connected with the traumatic kalyug!

     We have begun to develop the habit of bribing others not only in terms of money but also in other ways. We try our level best to please each other through feigned respect. We pretend to be there for others to help them out but the originality lies in our own hidden intentions. Nobody  is truly as pure as ghee!!

     This era is linked with a number of tragedies including heartaches from heart-rending breakups. People keep on loving either to fulfill their own sexual desires or to enact out certain revenge. True love is rarely to be found.... Hence, there has been an increase in the number of suicidal incidents leading to the devastation of innocent victims as well as their family members. Psychic lovers have adopted the dangerous techniques of acid  attacks, stabbing, black magic, murderous accidents, kidnappings, stalking, emotional blackmails, food poisoning, raping, etc. It is as if they have completely lost the sense of humanity...

      Life doesn't end when someone breaks his commitments towards us. We as females are a bit emotional ones and thereby this fact creates the tendency of ending ourselves.. It is not  to be blamed when a girl takes such a drastic step especially when she realizes that her trusted lover has cheated her in unthinkable ways and on top of that she gets emotionally shattered when her own family don't even care to be a backup support for her in such personal matters. It is our foremost responsibility to review the matter and to counsel such breakup victims with much gentleness and love. But, unfortunately. .this does not happen in all cases as our orthodox mindset doesn't allow such an openness because some of us are unnecessarily so  conscious of our family status that we tend to neglect the torn feelings of such ones. People either blame the wrong on us females or they somewhat torture us mentally in such a way that we are forced to view 'suicide' as the only option of getting forgotten.  Thus, we are labelled as ' Damsels in distress' or the weaker sex with loads of uncontrollable emotions....
    
     So, you see all this has to be completely changed and this will be possible only with the attitude of 'zero tolerance'. We have to show the world that we aren't old fashioned in our thinking anymore. We have to make others understand that we have updated ourselves in such a positive way that we are capable enough to continue our respective lives in a totally different manner inspite of being stung by the venomous breakups in our relationships. Let them get to know that we have learned to lead our lives meaningfully and have firmly decided to move ahead throughout our journey no matter what... I know this might seem to be quite complicated for us to follow as it's not that easy but still we must somehow train our emotions in such a manner so that those who have already hurt us so bitterly will be ashamed of themselves on viewing our determined willpower.

      Remember, our lives are so precious! Then, why do we have to end it for someone who doesn't even value us ??????? Even though after committing suicide, there will be no regretful reactions from such ones as they will consider us as foolish milk-bottle babies. On the other hand, it is our beloved family who suffer the painful loss of our absence in their lives...  I am deeply torn from within by such an incident which had happened in the case of my ever Best Friend- Aparna Ghorpade who was not only my kindergarten buddy but was also the beloved daughter of our family friend. Unfortunately, she's no more dwelling among us as she had ended her precious life due to her own personal reasons. People suspect this tragedic event as the reason behind a heart-rending breakup but it is not yet revealed. So, it's almost a bit difficult to come to an exact conclusion but this was certain that she was selected to join an IT company by the upcoming week. In this case, her life met a tragic end inspite of being a successful educated girl. Above all, I still terribly miss this girl in my life...

      I still remember her studious  face along with the soft squared  spectacles. She was quite soft-spoken and lovable. She was a hardworking student as she loved her school very much! Her family used to share Diwali sweets with us and in turn we used to celebrate Christmas together! It was extremely special! Sadly, I wasn't even there during the time of her death as I was transferred to another city at that time. But, her unexpected death hasn't changed my sisterly love towards her...I will never forget the moment when I had seen the reflection of Aparna in my  newborn infant daughter.. How I wish she was still alive to hold my little daughter. ..

     APARNA... YOU ARE STILL VERY MUCH ALIVE IN MY THOUGHTFUL MEMORIES....I CAN NEVER EVER FORGET YOU. ..

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